To Be Your Child’s Shield While Forging A Warrior

It is inevitable that we will see our children fall to the ground during their childhood. It is important to be the shield of your child so that he can overcome difficult circumstances while developing the tools of a true warrior.

Have you experienced the horrible feeling when your child hurts or is rejected in different ways? Blows, hurtful words, rejected love and academic failures can often cause a child’s self-esteem to sink to the ground. Give it wings to rise to the highest of peaks. It is your job as a parent.

The injustices of daily life touch the deepest fibers of every being. That is why it is so fundamental to be the protector of these children, to be the shield of his child until he can defend himself with his own claws.

When it comes to bullying or academic failure, do not allow any time to elapse. Many children can not wait for adults to take action, because waiting in cases of bullying means enormous suffering. In many cases, it is not at all about “children who are children”.

Every parent is responsible for forging a personality that is able to cope with the adversities of daily life, but first it is necessary to be the shield of their child. It is important to make sure that the children coexist and develop in a safe environment.

Of course , it is best to take action as soon as possible if you think your child is in danger or affected in any way. To do so, you have a variety of options at your disposal to create this future warrior.

Of course , some conflicts in the child’s daily life require an adult to step in to solve the problem at the root. To be your child’s shield and close to his inner warrior, you only need power through the child.

This power will allow the child to tackle the situation in order to resolve it in the best way. But how to do it?

• Teach him to love himself. The idea is to promote self-esteem and security so that he feels both valued and valuable.
• Teach him to demand respect and set boundaries. It is best if your child knows how to take control of the situation, can say no and can express his rights in a certain way. For this, it is possible to use a series of exercises that give the child more confidence.

• Let him learn to ask for help. It is not necessary to resolve absolutely everything alone, because children can learn to resolve conflicts by seeing how older people act. In this case, it is not bad to pick up an adult, but the exact opposite.

• The importance of using one’s voice. If the child wants to feel respected, she must learn to use her voice to defend herself or others when she understands that they are in an unfair situation. Therefore, the use of physical aids becomes important, as does the strength to avoid extreme situations, such as abuse or physical aggression.

We are not talking about overprotection, but only advise you to pay attention to provide the necessary tools and aids so that your child can calmly cope with all difficult situations in the future.

All you need is love, because it allows you to sow the seeds of security, self-esteem and self-confidence. Once these invaluable fruits have been harvested, your child will have a sense of what she is worth as a person, and will thus raise her head to take all the battles.

You will be there to watch your little warrior fight his first battles, in order to help her overcome any obstacles that come her way. Do not let go of her hand.